Meet your therapist

​Shalom!
​My name is Nili Salem, and I am an epic spiritual psychotherapist for women. I work with women of all ages and types, internationally, on Zoom. I love what I do, and it is the biggest blessing to watch my client's mental well-being improve... it is beyond incredible!  

There is no secret too dark, no shame too painful, no problem too serious to not walk kindly and sweetly through life's contractions and expansions.

 I've been doing it for over a decade, and I would love to be able to do it with you too! Will we work well together? Jump in and try a session. There is no pressure to continue. AND you can book a weekly session, or just book a last minute session whenever you feel you need it!

So what kind of therapy do I do?

Narrative Therapy

Narrative Therapy is based on two premises- One, there are two experts in the room. I am the expert in listening and questioning, you are the expert in yourself. This understanding creates a healthy dynamic where we believe that the answers are within you, that we can trust you, and there is no therapist pedestaling... Two, we believe in externalizing, that means a person is a person, and a problem is a problem. sorry to break it to you... you aren't the problem!

Shadow Work

Shadow work is based on the work of Carl Jung and Rebbe Nachman, and is a process of uncovering subconscious beliefs, bringing them into the light, and learning to love and accept the all of ourselves, the "hakol sheli," unconditionally. 

Non Violent Communication

NVC, based off of the work of Marshall Rosenberg, is a system of communication which helps us understand our feelings and needs, and unpack the worst of our judgments. He teaches that a judgment is a tragic expression of an unmet need... this is a super fun and profound process that I love walking clients through it at the right times. 

Psychosomatics and Metaphysics

I help clients understand how the body is a dashboard for the soul. We can often alleviate and heal physical pains in the body, from headaches, to backaches, bloating... basically anything flaring in your body will tell us a story of what you are needing emotionally... and it's really incredible to witness people's pain release...

EFT Tapping

EFT is emotional freedom technique and works by bypassing the brain, the mind, and allowing access to deeper places in the psyche by co-tapping through the Chinese energy meridians... it is a wonderful exercise that I use with clients especially if hysteria, panic or anxiety are presenting strong during a session, or if we find ourselves a stuck point... tapping has an incredible way of bringing up ideas that were laying dormant and rise right to the surface to be seen.

Kabbalah, Torah and Spirituallity

​Now, first off, we can leave this all behind. I have clients where we don't talk about God or spirituality to honor their preferences. AND, yet, Torah wisdom is my other field of expertise. I have a bachelors and a Masters connected to religious studies and philosophy, and have been studying it deeply for twenty years... Sometimes incorporating this wisdom, and incorporating prayer can add the sweetest depth and extra layers of meaning to whatever my clients are going through.​

BE IN TOUCH! ​

I would be honored and privileged to help you become your own best friend and cheerleader... to witness your sweet growth and transformation... to hold your hand as we watch your self-worth rise... to time upgrade baby!
Please visit the next two pages of the website for my biography & pricing information. 
Love and blessings, Nili Salem

In Session

​Now in session you won't be consciously aware that all of the above modalities are at play. You might experience it as a 'regular therapy session,' but what's different is how you will feel about yourself and your life after...
Yallah.. come check out if we are a good shidduch... and only if you love it, we'll continue.
​I have flexible scheduling, I work internationally, with all types and ages of women.
(Back by popular demand are Nili's one-on-one VIP exclusive nature trips.
Check out the 3rd tab to learn more.)

Nili is also a Torah Teacher and Inspirational Speaker

Yes! Nili teaches enthusiastic, experiential and empowering Torah, leads tour groups in spiritual activities and into nature, and leads milestone ceremonies including bridal prep, engagement, wedding prep, chuppah, bedekin, blessing ways, births, brit milah, pidyon haben, & bar/bat mitzvahs.

​Beloved by students around the world, Nili offers Torah classes in a variety of seminary and gap year programs across Israel, private shiurim for different communities across Jerusalem, as well as internationally via Skype & Zoom.

Popular Torah courses include, Funky Parsha & Midrashim, Getting to Know You: The Torah of Our Lives, Mystical Middot and Meditation, Spiritual Practices of the Kabbalah, Times of the Year, Discovering Where We are Now, The Secrets of the Aleph Bet, Sing-it Sister, Around the Fire, Healing Alternatives from Torah, and The Shabbas Course. Nili teaches formally, in family settings, and in one-on-one tutoring sessions. 

She also founded Touching Sacred Mystery, and runs "Sacred Sexuality: Where Mystical Judaism & Embodied Pleasure Meet,"
a life-changing 6-week Zoom course and workshop for halachic women.

Nili speaks for hire, for tour groups, Birthright groups, and various seminaries. Her style has been called fun, vulnerable, deep and courageous. Her preference is to 'keep it real' with whatever audience she speaks to. Spiritual, uplifting, and to the point. 
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Testimonials

What my clients are saying

Rachel T.

It's totally unique. No one else teaches how and what you teach. The impact of your teachings has influenced my life in a profound way, and I have shared these teachings far and wide. Thank you. 

Sarah F.

You literally changed my life and I am so grateful. And yes, I will continue to tell you this again and again. And yes, I know I am just one of hundreds who has told you this... and still. Thank you! 

Chana J.

I recalled again today what a difference you made in my life, and the tools you gave me, and I am forever indebted to you. I am so grateful that I could also recommend you to work with my friends and family. 

Malka S.

I LOVED meeting with Nili for therapy. It's really hard to find a therapist who is so genuine and real, and who can really be present with whatever you're going through, while remaining positive at the same time. I felt incredibly empowered when working with Nili and was able to explore such deep areas of my life all within her safe, warm, and non judgemental space. 

Naomi N.

Nili is really inspiring and she keeps things simple. She just makes things make sense. Therapy with Nili is energizing, infectious... you leave as if you just had a shot of something really powerful straight to the blood... When I talk with her my life feels full of love and possibility... yeah, that describes it!

Tamar S.

Wow. Nili, that was so powerful. I need to keep the lessons you shared with me by my bed every morning. Thank you for the encouragement. Thank you Nili for helping me bring up all that 'stuff' and being such a great and generous listener. You helped me become more confident with my choices and feel that in the end all will work out.

Sarah H.

I am so grateful for working with Nili. She sees peoples potentials, the best they can be, and then she does whatever she can to help them manifest that. She is nurturing, giving and caring.... and I am so happy about the time we had together.

Mariam S.

It is amazing talking to Nili. It helps me find so much clarity, inspiration, and new perspectives. Thank you so much for really listening!

Sussana G.

When I say that Nili saved my life, I mean it. I have been working with Nili for two years and I am so grateful I found her. I went through a divorce, my children were going through some extremely difficult things, and she just got me through the dark times. I'll just say it again, and I wont be the only person... Nili mamash saved my life. And I am so glad I found her.